DontRemember writes birthday, anniversary, and love emails and sends them from your Gmail. Add the people who matter. The night before you get a draft heads-up so you can edit, regenerate, or delete. On the day it goes out in their timezone from your address. Free for one person. Unlimited $20/year. No card to start. Gmail only for now.
Who it is for
People who want to remember birthdays, anniversaries, and the relationships that matter without keeping another task list.
Problem it solves
Important messages get forgotten or sent late, and writing something personal from scratch can be hard when life is busy.
The solution
It drafts a personal email the night before, lets you edit or regenerate it, then sends it from your Gmail in the recipient's timezone.
What makes it unique
It sends the letter from your own Gmail instead of only reminding you, with drafts you can review and a simple relationship-focused setup.
Features1 listed
Drafts in your voice
AI creates messages that sound like you and sends them from your Gmail.
Details
Platforms
Web
Pricing
Free
Built for
People who want to remember birthdays, anniversaries, and the relationships that matter without keeping another task list.
In IndieTools' mobile lab test on November 12, 2026, the DontRemember website scored 100 out of 100 (good). All 5 lab metrics were rated good. It placed #490 overall in the finalized week 2026-W45.
Measured (UTC)
LCPLargest Contentful Paint
998 ms
Good
TBTTotal Blocking Time
31 ms
Good
CLSCumulative Layout Shift
0.000
Good
FCPFirst Contentful Paint
998 ms
Good
Ranked #490 overall in 2026-W45, best #135.
DontRemember lab metrics
Speed metrics for DontRemember, measured November 12, 2026
Metric
Result
Status
Trend
Mobile lab testMid-range phone on a throttled 4G connection, two runs averaged. Changes compare with the run on Nov 11.
Performance score
GoodUp 7 points
100 / 100
GoodUp 7 points
First Contentful PaintFCP
GoodAbout the same
998 ms
GoodAbout the same
Largest Contentful PaintLCP
Good1.88 s faster
998 ms
Good1.88 s faster
Speed IndexSI
Good901 ms faster
1.52 s
Good901 ms faster
Total Blocking TimeTBT
Good30 ms slower
31 ms
Good30 ms slower
Cumulative Layout ShiftCLS
Good0.090 less shift
0.000
Good0.090 less shift
Unthrottled observationsTimed on the test machine's own fast connection, so they read lower than the lab metrics above.
Page loadLoad
355 ms faster
915 ms
355 ms faster
Server responseTTFB
About the same
21 ms
About the same
DontRemember performance history
55 comparable mobile lab runs since September 27, 2026. Choose a metric and a range, then move along the line to read each run.
DontRemember Speed ranking
Weekly Speed standing for DontRemember
Weekly standingLatest finalized week 2026-W45. Bests cover the last 52 finalized weeks.
Stored lab observations from controlled test runs, not real-user Core Web Vitals or a guarantee of search rankings. Weekly standings remain attached to their finalized edition.Method psi-mobile-two-sample-mean-v1, 2 samples per reading. Lab results can vary between runs.
Model difference−1. DR4 is 1 point lower than DR3.
Measured · dontremember.app
What do DR4, DR3 and the model difference mean?
DR4:
Ahrefs' newer model. It gives more weight to links from sites with organic search traffic and rates a subdomain on its own links.
DR3:
The previous model, shown in the Ahrefs app until 1 December 2026.
Model difference:
DR4 minus DR3 for the same domain. The models calculate differently, so this is not growth or a drop; the “since” lines compare each model with itself.
